In high school I dated a white woman. She would come to visit me on the rez. And her dad, who was very racist, didn't like that at all. And he told her one time, 'You shouldn't go on the rez if you're white because Indians have a lot of anger in their heart.'

My wife was the first romantic partner who understood both American and native parts of me - not so much the positive stuff, but the damage.

My wife was the first romantic partner who understood both American and native parts of me - not so much the positive stuff, but the damage.