If you're writing about angry people, you use the language of anger. If you're writing about desperate people, you use the language of desperation.

If you're writing about angry people, you use the language of anger. If you're writing about desperate people, you use the language of desperation.

When you're watching somebody read your material and they smile and nod, you know you've found that place where your experience and their experience match, even though they aren't the same exact experience.